Dr Stephen Yan --- A matter of respect
Jon
Dyer(Dai zhi qiang) was my student from 1994 until 2007. He was
enthusiastic and had a keen interest in martial arts, in particular the
Chinese styles. I had trained for many years so I had a lot of
information to present to him, much of it unusual or even controversial
because I had studied the histories and hierarchy of the styles I had
practised and some of the details I discovered countered that normally
taught in many popular schools. He was very fortunate I feel to meet me
because I have such a passion and back this up with long hours of
training and cultural study of the classics. I actually started formal
training at age 13 , I am now 50 , have never stopped training during
this period , and still train twice a day , and teaching every week,
students from local and overseas .
I have even built a
training hall in my yard at home to train in every day and to teach
classes. Not only this but I have brought out many great masters to live
with me for months at a time in order to get the true nuances of the
systems and all this gets passed on to my valued students(13 masters
from period of 25years) . It is my life! As my chosen vocation I am an
acupuncturist and massage therapist (was a surgeon of general surgery
before immigrate to NZ) and everything I do revolves around this
philosophy of self-preservation and appreciation of natural remedies. I
cannot honesty tell you how many hours I have studied the great books of
wisdom and translated their worth into a language people can
understand. Although I am Chinese I now live in New Zealand but make
regular trips back to China for the sole reason of learning more about
these national treasures. Many of these old masters are dying now year
by year and I feel it my job to preserve and restore their collective
knowledge and to treat it as gold. My students understand that they are
being gifted precious information from my travels and teaching. Anyway, I
have taken Jon to many destinations in China to act as guide and
translator and mentor. This was a great privilege for him and I did my
very best to make him comfortable and direct him to the best places and
people to learn. I do not do this for just anybody, there is a trust and
respect and caring in this – not merely a “favour” lavished on anybody
walking through the front doors of my training hall.
Jon
started with Northern Shaolin Kung Fu and then progressed to Xing Yi ,
Dai Xin Yi and then Qin Na. I knew in the beginning his lifestyle was
far from perfect but do not need to go into that here. Although he did
romanticise about Chinese Martial Arts in the beginning (Like many
people) he soon realised that it was more about hard work and hard study
than a theatrical performance. He was ordinary or regular in his
training and did not particularly stand out so I decided that I treat
our relationship as a business arrangement rather than a Mentor/Protégé
type. This appeared to work well. We trained every week in private
lessons.
Later I felt by his demeanour and by what he
said that he had changed his lifestyle more in keeping with that held by
serious martial artists from the past. With this understanding I
decided to make him an inner disciple. This was witnessed by Master Yan
(Xin Yi Master) and so it legitimised and lodged in history the deed as
done. That would have been fine if he had actually changed and the
story completely true. Unfortunately he has now left me and is saying
unsavoury things which is irresponsible and in many cases unfounded. He
has stumbled on some very public forums to hurt himself and others. It
is very shameful to see a young man disintegrate and become so angry at
the world and people providing him shelter and food in the form of
teaching. I wish no harm or bad things to come to him of course but he
needs help if this continues. I hope somebody else can offer some
comfort to him and make him realise the mistakes he has made and the
damage done to his nearest and dearest. Anyway my path lays ahead of me
as it does for him also and hopefully people reading this can see
through his delusions to get to the actual truth.
When I first came back from China this year I answered several questions online, but since then had not looked at the English Martial Arts forums for some time. I was first told about a post containing a nasty personal attack after it had been online for a few days. I have since read my former Tudi (disciple) Mr Jon Dyer’s article titled “Addressing Dr Stephen Yan – Unfortunately”. It seems the underlying reason for these posts is that Mr Jon Dyer wishes to establish an organization around Dai Xin Yi not associated with me. It may be to make money, or fame, but either way he has taken me as a barrier to achieve this purpose. To do this he thinks he needs to be Master Yan L C’s successor, needs to be a teaching certificate holder, and needs to be Master Yan’s sole representative. He also obviously feels he needs to discredit by teaching of Dai Xin Yi to eliminate any possible competition.
Both Jon Dyer and Master Yan (if everything Mr Dyer says can be believed) also seem to constantly forget that Master Yan himself led the ceremony for Jon Dyer to become my Tudi (As per the photos on the link below). Now it is claimed this broke the rules and am not ready even to teach – and yet Master Yan was there in the ceremony of me taking a Dai Xin Yi disciple? How can this be?
My complete response and the associated photos to this can be found on my main website:http://www.tai-chi.co.nz/Addressing%20Mr%20Jon%20Dyer%20(Unfortunately).html